In reflecting to the above post I can see the mistakes that I have made by not seeing the changes in my wife. Yet, I did not experiance the ‘love’ from her as the changes were taking place. The result is after 20 years we are ending because we did not see the changes ….”liquidity”.

I really enjoyed your perspective in the reading above. I was able to apply it in a different area of my life.

My friends and I sometimes get caught up in trying to create the fun we had in high school instead of focusing on the new fun.

I think the points made in your blog about love can be applied to the notion that the best times were in high school. What a sad thought that truely is! What is there to look forward to if you believe in your head and heart that the best times have already been had?

Your writing has encouraged me to look for the qualites in my friends that only time can bring about.

The same way lovers should seek and appreciate growth in each other I do believe the same is true for any relationship.

Thanks for the writing.

I’m also excited to take some time to think over the 10 questions you recently presented for making 2009 a better year.

-Adam